I don't really believe anybody can tell you which saber speaks to you. We can suggest based on our own preferences, but it really comes down to this.
When you look into your imagination, and picture yourself with an ignited saber, which one sends that sensation down your spine, and into your soul that says "This is the one"?
Most of us saw it clearly from the first time we saw a light saber on-screen. Some still need to look a little deeper within. But, somewhere in there, you know which one it will be. They are both awesome designs, no doubt about that, and there is no wrong choice. My son has a weathered Bane in Indigo, and I have an Exhalted. They both speak to me, but the Exhalted was the very first saber I bought from Saber Forge, because it was the one I saw myself with so clearly.
So, don't be afraid to make your choice. You can't be wrong.