Hey, Slenaas.
No matter what else, your style is going to reflect the type of person you are. If you're naturally quite reserved and thoughtful, then you're naturally going to adopt something more defensive and counter strike based, such as Djem - so
And I'm not just talking about saber fighting, but other things in general.
I dabbled in boxing long ago and still keep it up for fitness. Though I'm right handed, I always favoured a southpaw stance as I can see better, defend better, attack better and felt much much more comfortable with my foot movement and balance. And when I play chess I prefer black. Let my opponent blunder in so I can see what he's up to.
Bottom line is that you need to be 100% comfortable in your chosen form, to give you a solid base, then you can start adapting and mixing things up. You can certainly admire and incorporate the acrobatics of say Ataru, but there's no value in striving and sweating to be something you're not.
MTFBWY